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There's nothing worse than a sloppy kiss. The moisture, the rogue tongue darting every which way, the groping hands... It's enough to make you shiver (and not in the fun way). Do you really want to be known as the Face Licker, or the Tongue Stabber? No. No human on earth wants that. You want to be known as a fantastic kisser, as the man or woman who is the master of both the slow, sensual kiss and the wild, passionate make out. You want to be the person that others actually want to snog. The person who inspires fantasies and gossip. Remember, we can always aspire to be better, both in and out of the bedroom. And kissing is no exception.

Heed these essential tips, and you will be well on your way to becoming a kissing master. Fantasies, gossip and adoring looks included.


You can thank us later.


Keep Fresh

Especially if you've gone out for Indian food together, you want to keep your breath minty. Bad breath is a serious turn-off. If you can't sneak away for a quick brush keep a pack of gum in your pocket or in your car. She will really appreciate it. What could have been a good kiss can be a complete turn-off if you've got dog breath.


Lead with your breath

Breathe a little on her neck and pull away first. This will build anticipation and show her that you can control yourself. You can brush her hair behind her shoulder (if she has long hair), or put you hands on her face while you breathe in her yummy woman bouquet. Notice the smell of her hair and her skin and don't move too fast.


Lick your lips

When you go in for the kiss, moisten up first, but not too much. A little chap stick never hurt anybody either.


Less is more

Especially in the beginning. Kiss her lips gently.


Pay attention

Listen to her breathing and be aware of what she is doing. Is she taking deeper breaths or trying to pull away from you? If she is pushing you away, things aren't working out.


Mimic the woman's moves

If she is receptive she will give you body language clues. Her body might start moving, she might try to get closer to you or put her arms around your body. If she opens her mouth, do the same.


If she seems open to your tongue, use it gently

A woman's mouth is usually smaller than a man's mouth and she can feel overwhelmed by your tongue easily.


The kissing game

How about giving your partner a special treat. When kissing begins to escalate, gently slide your hands up and over the ears of your partner, forming a sound barrier, a temporary seal over the ears of sorts. By depriving sound, you increases the tactile sense or sense of touch. This causes the focus of their mind to zero in on your mouth and your kiss. That's right, their attention turns to your mouth where it becomes their entire world. It's simple and harmless and an interesting, if not passionate, study in intimate communication.


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